Marriage Is About Time

It is interesting to see how many people get married and then years down the road decide that it wasn’t the right decision. It was a choice that was made that somehow went wrong and now it is time to call it quits. Giving up on a decision that has molded and changed each of your lives can be the most devastating experience that anyone can go through; it not only effects the lives of those who are within the marriage, but for so many who have been a part of it. So how can a couple go into a marriage knowing it is going to be tough, but at the same time make it work? Here are few things which might help.
Communication is such a huge part of marriage. It is how we got to know each other and it is one of the best ways for you to understand your spouse. Talk with each other, even when times are tough. There are going to be stressful decisions that have to be made, and if you have mastered the art of communicating with each other, it will make surviving those decisions a little bit easier. Laugh together, learn together, and most importantly, talk with one another every chance you get.
Trust one another. When we started dating, life was all about number one. You had all the time in the world to be together because the responsibilities you have now weren’t around; but times will change if they haven’t already. You won’t have the same privilege of spending all of your time together and you will have to be away from each other. It’s not easy on any couple and sometimes it can cause doubt in a marriage. Learn to trust each other and the decisions each party has to make. Understand the vows you made to each other and do everything you can to keep those. Whether you are together or not, you are still together. Trust in that knowledge and do everything you can to live by it.
Take time for you. This is a vital part of life, whether you have been married three days or three decades. Just because you are married doesn’t mean you have to give up who you are. Take time to do the things which you enjoy because life will go by whether you do them or not; so do things which make you happy. Obviously you will need to plan for events, but it is completely necessary to take time for you. You will find that you are easier to be around after doing something which makes you happy, and it might make your best friend happy that you feel that way.
Finally, it is so important that you share those three little words with each other. She needs to hear it and so does he, never forget that. Life can become extremely busy and it guaranteed it will get stressful. You will have a million things on your mind which can pull you away from spending time with your loved one, but if you always take the time to share how you feel about them, they will always know. So whether you share those words in your actions, deeds, or verbally, make sure you don’t forget to tell them.

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One Response to Marriage Is About Time

  1. Klondike says:

    I bow down humbly in the presence of such greeantss.

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